the mandarin orange that he will nvr eat

8th March - Day 33

2 weeks ago, some datuk came for a charity visit incogjuction with CNY
sis wanted to give the mandarin oranges to the nurses as dad wont be able to eat it in the next few days
probably by thn it'll be rotten

but dad refuse to
said he wanted to keep it till he's better

looking at mandarin oranges were one of his fav food he looks fwd to during CNY...
N its suppose to be a symbol of good luck
so we decided to keep it

but today, i threw it away
dad hasnt woke up since the 3rd op
docs are at wits end
they pulled out n withdrew the support not long after we announced that we wanted to move him to spore for a 2nd opinion

MI wanted us to send him to Selayang for another op
Selayang suggested to send to local GH
the last op that dad did in GH 4 weeks ago was a bad move
we cant afford for anything else to go wrong now

so SGH it is
it was a decision discuss the day b4 n a decision made today
it took them about 8 hours to sort matters out

doc were slow to communicate n pushing all the task to each other
in the end, sis was really piss n pushing every1 ard

things got a go..finally
by 8pm++ dad is in spore
we feel so much more relieved here

at least everything was going at a faster pace
but of coz, the bill will be too

the icu here is strict
but they threat patient wf respect
dad is almost unconscious now but we can see that he is in a comfortable position
we are glad n we think we made a right move but is this a choice made too late?